2010-06-07

Will homosexuality be accepted in barracks?

Will homosexuality be accepted in barracks?

A gay soldier kisses his boyfriend in a public place in a scene from the movie "Just Friends" The Constitution Court is studying whether prohibiting homosexuality in the military is unconstitutional. / Korea Times file

By Bae Ji-sook
Staff reporter

Should gay soldiers have the same rights as their heterosexual peers?

The Constitutional Court is expected to soon decide whether Article 92 of the Military Law stipulating the punishment of homosexual soldiers is a violation of their constitutional rights. A relevant public hearing is scheduled at the nation's highest court this week.

Reactions are mixed over the issue since the military is one of the most conservative and exclusive organizations here, and any changes may influence overall Korean society where many homosexuals suffer from extreme prejudice and discrimination.

While gay activists and civic groups are calling for the abolishment of the law, insisting that sexuality is irrelevant in terms of performance, conservatives are concerned that allowing same-sex relationships would trigger conflict, bringing down overall military discipline.

To the surprise of many people, the petition was filed by a military court in 2008, which claimed that regulating an individual's sexual preference is a violation of the rights to decide one's sexual behavior and of one's privacy.

The case was ignited when a 27 year-old sergeant was indicted for "habitually sexually assaulting" his subordinate. According to military law, those who have a sexual relationship with a member of the same sex are subject to a year imprisonment. Homosexual intercourse is described as the "mating of chickens."

The court ruled him innocent, saying that homosexuality isn't subject to any regulation because it is strictly personal.

Supporters of the abolishment say the law conflicts with the Constitutional rights of a human. "In European Union states, except for Greece, homosexuals performing military service is accepted. In Australia and many other countries, they are allowed to openly serve in the military," lawyer Jung Jung-hoon said.

There are currently 53 countries prohibiting gay soldiers, including China, Yemen and Iran.

The Barrack Obama administration, which has widely publicized its pledges for homosexual, has recently decided to abolish the so-called "Don't ask, don't tell," rule from next year. The policy is not to publicly discriminate against homosexuals and at the same time, bind gay service members not to publicize their sexuality.

Admiral Mike Mullen, chairman of the U.S. Joint Chiefs of Staff, expressed his personal support, citing the "contradiction between allowing homosexuals to serve and requiring them to keep quiet about their sexuality."

However, Korean military officials have been rather ignorant about the issue.

Jeong Yol, one of the handful who came out of the closet, said he was tormented by the military which has defined homosexuality as a mental disease. "I was sent to a hospital where people beat me, mocked me and ordered me to harass a man," he recalled.

"Even after I was sent back to the camp, I was branded as one to be 'watched out for' where people monitored my every move. Not many were willing to be a true friend. My life there was miserable and lonely," he said.

Still, there are people who worry that the possible "loosen up" atmosphere on sexuality could lead to chaos in the barracks.

Han Gi-heung, a journalist for Donga Ilbo newspaper, previously said, "The government is becoming 'populist' stressing human rights. But we must think about whether it will really benefit the military. The affairs and all other matters involving homosexual relations could easily tear down the structure."

There have been several unsuccessful attempts to overcome such obstacles here.

In 2006, gay riot police officer YuJung Min-seok refused to return to his post after a month of holiday, claiming that the masculine and oppressive military culture was offensive to him. In 2008, another riot policeman Lee Gye-deok requested the Ministry of National Defense to remove him from the riot police squad because the "heterosexual-dominant culture has constantly suppressed gay staff members."



병영에서 동성애 수용 가능할까?

남성 동성애자 병사들도 이성애자들과 똑같은 권리를 가져야 할까요?

헌법재판소는 동성애자 병사들에게 벌을 주게 되어 있는 병역법 92조가 헌법적 권리를 침해했는지 여부를 곧 결정하게 될 것 같다. 관련 심문이 금주 헌재에서 갖게 될 예정이다.

한국에서는 군이 가장 보수적이고 배타적인 조직 중 하나라서 이 문제에 관한 반응은 엇갈리고 있다. 변화가 있다면 많은 동성애자들이 극도의 편견과 차별을 당하고 있는 한국 사회 전반에 많은 영향을 끼칠 것이다.

남자 동성애자들과 시민 단체들은 성욕은 실행과는 무관하다며 이 법을 폐기할 것을 촉구하고 있는 반면 보수주의자들은 동성 성관계를 허용하면 갈등을 조장하여 전반적으로 군기가 약화될 거라며 우려하고 있다.

많은 사람들이 놀랍게도 이 청원은 2008년 군법회의가 제기했다. 군법은 개인의 성적인 선호의 결정권과 사생활을 침해하는 것이라고 주장했다.


2010-06-02

Hmmm...

GAYS IN THE MILITARY

2010-04-11

Backlash: The Role of the Asian Financial Crisis in the Feminization of Korean Ideals of Male Beauty

Backlash: The Role of the Asian Financial Crisis in the Feminization of Korean Ideals of Male Beauty

Posted in East Asia, Korean Media, Korean Sexuality by James Turnbull on December 15, 2008
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It may be a little premature of me to announce the following news to readers, but then it did make my weekend, and for the sake of those of you who are unwise enough to read this blog at work then perhaps I should use the opportunity to push the rather explicit advertisement in the previous post down “below the page” sooner rather than later.

But seriously though, I am inordinately happy to announce that alongside fellow panelists and bloggers Roger Wellor, Gomushin Girl and Liminality I’ll be presenting my paper entitled “Backlash: The Role of the Asian Financial Crisis in the Feminization of Korean Ideals of Male Beauty” at the sixth International Convention of Asia Scholars (ICAS) conference at Chungnam National University in Daejeon in August next year, and I’d be very happy to meet any readers while I’m there. I understand if you won’t be penciling anything in your 2009 diaries quite yet though, and so I’ll make sure to remind everyone again somewhat closer to the date.
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In the meantime, you may be interested in the abstract I wrote for it, which I plan to be the midst of expanding into a Master’s thesis by this time next year. While (naturally) rather academic-sounding, for readers unfamiliar with this post that ultimately led to it then it will probably be easier than reading than the 5100 words that I originally wrote on it there:
lee-jun-ki-ec9db4eca68ceab8b0-kkotminam-eabd83ebafb8eb82a8In the mid-1990s, the dominant images of men in Korean popular culture were of strong, masculine figures that protected and provided for women, mirroring the male breadwinner ethos that underlay Korea’s then prevalent salaryman system and which, by dint of being much larger and more integral to the Korean economy than the Japanese one with which it is most often associated, had a correspondingly larger hold on the Korean psyche. Despite this, in accounting for the complete switch of dominant images of men to effeminate, youthful “kkotminam” in just a few short years after the Asian Financial Crisis of 1997-98, what limited literature exists on evolving Korean sexuality and gender roles in the last decade seems to exhibit a curious blind spot as to possible economic and employment-related factors, instead attributing it to, variously, a rising general “pan-Asian soft masculinity”, the import of Western notions of metrosexuality, and particularly of Japanese ones of “bishōnen”.
relaxed-korean-woman-rushed-salarymanIn this paper, I begin by acknowledging the validity of these factors but argue that the dominance of Japan in East Asian cultural studies has led scholars to overemphasize the latter, in turn ascribing too much agency to Korean women in their late-teens and early-twenties that were the primary recipients of such Japanese cultural products as “yaoi” fan-fiction. This is anachronistic, as public displays and discussions of female sexuality and ideals of male beauty were in reality very much proscribed in Korea for unmarried women before the 2002 World Cup, the locus of which was primarily married women instead. Indeed, as I will next discuss, in the mid-1990s there was an sudden and intense public discourse on both generated by increasingly radical depictions of married women’s sex lives in books and films, partially reflecting the coming of the age of the first generation of Korean women to receive democratic notions of gender and family life through their schooling but then encountering the reality of Korean patriarchy in their marriages, and partially also the concomitant liberation represented by increased numbers of Korean women entering the workforce: small, but growing, and symbolically significant in that they vindicated decades of the relegation of feminist concerns to the wider aims of the democratization movement as a whole, with the understanding that they would be addressed upon its success.
It is in these contexts that the Asian Financial Crisis struck Korea, and married women in particular would be the first to be laid-off as part of restructuring efforts, with the explicit justification that they would be supported by their husbands. Rather than retaining and reaffirming breadwinner ideals of male beauty as encouraged however, in the final part of this paper I demonstrate how images of men in Korean popular culture were suddenly dominated by kkotminam and such indirect criticisms of salarymen as were permitted under prevailing public opinion. This was a natural reaction to circumstances, and I conclude that explanations for the shift that do not consequently take the role of the crisis as a catalyst into account are inadequate.
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In hindsight, my overall argument about the increasing popularity of feminine ideals of Korean male beauty – that it at least partially stemmed from a sense of backlash and anger by Korean married women at their mass lay-offs and so forth – could possibly have been made a little clearer in that last paragraph, but then I was only just shy of the 500 word limit, and I’m not sure that I could have fitted everything necessary in otherwise. But it did the job, and so naturally I plan to write a great deal about the subject here as I work up to my thesis proposal and the conference paper (the feedback would be very helpful, and much appreciated), beginning by belatedly finishing my original  series on it hopefully sometime soon. Apologies for the very long delay to that, and to my one on the relationship between Korean militarism and gender relations also, but the former has evolved a great deal as you’ve seen, and the latter…well, I’ll explain (and hope to compensate for) the delay when I restart that also, hopefully before the end of the month.

Male Beauty Products a Booming Business in Korea



Male Beauty Products a Booming Business

Actor Cho In-seong, modeling for mens toiletry brand Miraepa. Actor Cho In-seong, modeling for men's toiletry brand Miraepa. 
More and more Korean men are willing to do everything they can to make themselves look good. This trend has prompted the fashion and beauty industry to focus on the emerging men's grooming market, as the women's beauty market has reached saturation point.

Beauty product makers have recently released a number of shampoos for men. Elastine has introduced Elastine Homme, a scalp-care product exclusively for men, and CJ has released CJ Lion shampoo, also formulated for men. Even men's hair styling devices are appearing. Unix's X1 Sports Style and World Electronics' CNS men's hair styling kits are designed to help men with short hair to easily style their looks.

Body-shaping underwear is no longer considered just for women. Body Shapers has begun marketing Nipper for men, which makes the belly and waist look slimmer. In the men's body care product department, L'Oreal's Biotherm Homme has released Abdosculpt body gel and slimming patch. "We released them last year, and have received a good response from male consumers," Biotherm Homme said.

The Face, Korea's no. 3 cosmetics company, last year saw men's products account for over 10 percent of its total sales. The proportion of male shoppers in online shopping malls has gradually increased to more than 30 percent.

"As looks are being considered an element of competitiveness in society, basic cosmetics like whitening and anti-aging items are getting more popular among men. Some men who like to style themselves even use light make-up products," an industry insider said.


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These are men?


"Yes, he is absolutely 150% pure testosterone!"



"Yes, he is VERY sure he's a man!"


"You mean to say you haven't seen other men do this?  It's natural!  All real men do this!"



"He's a REAL man, so after this facial, he will have his nails done."

 
"Yes, he has a girlfriend who is completely in love with this masculinity!"
 


"He's starting to look like his girlfriend!  
It must be love!"
 


"Don't be silly!  This is not his girlfriend (from above picture).  This is another REAL MAN!"
 



"Oh my ... what a really HOT, REAL MAN!
(He IS a man, right? Is he or isn't she?)"

 



"WOW!  So macho!"
 



"Yes, he is ooooozing with masculinity!"
 


"Like father, like daughter SON!"
 



"Yes, he has 5 girlfriends..."


"Pssst!  The WOMAN is on the LEFT!"
 


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Yes, both these chaps are REAL MEN!"
 



2010-04-06

Rain Returns With 'Back to the Basic'

Rain Returns With 'Back to the Basic'


The cover of Rain’s new album “Back to the Basics”
/ Courtesy of JTune Entertainment
By Han Sang-hee
Staff Reporter

Rain is back. He's ``Back to the Basic.''

``Hello, everyone. Rain is back with a ballad,'' the 27-year-old told a roomful of reporters and photographers in Yeouido, Seoul, Monday.

He has returned as a singer, after spending months traveling around the world promoting his Hollywood action flick, ``Ninja Assassin,'' and it was evident he was ready to further wow fans with yet another hot track.

``I needed to go back to where I started from. People have asked me why I wanted to release an album in Korea when I could continue acting in the United States. The reason is I could not forget my roots: my Korean fans. It was my duty and so that's why I chose the title `Back to the Basic,''' he said.

The Album

Although Rain has released several ballads, this is the first time he is promoting his new album with one, which is called, ``Love Song.''

``I've been working as Rain for about eight years now, and I felt I needed to give my fans something completely different. A singer has to evolve with transition; that's what we should strive to do and that's why people love us,'' he said.

``But I promise it's just not me standing on the stage just singing; there will be some dance moves along the way,'' Rain added.

``Back to the Basic'' is comprised of five tracks, including the English version of ``Love Song.'' The four tracks are definitely groovier than his other up-beat and electronic numbers, which were always accompanied by clever choreography that brought out the power and sexiness of the singer. ``Love Song'' was made two years ago by Rain himself, alongside his last hit number ``Rainism.'' It was released earlier this month and immediately topped online music charts.

``I wanted to make tasteful music, not so fancy and decorated. The songs are all based on my experience,'' he said, smiling shyly.

Working for the movie was a difficult time for Rain as he had to stick to a strict diet and workout routine, and he had to go through that again for his album photos.

The singer shows off his chiseled torso in the photos, some with a longer and wavier hairdo, and others with it a shorter style. While previous albums focused on the more masculine and tougher Rain, this one showed a more feminine side.

``I'll be wearing some accessories like bracelets, vests, hats and fake eyelashes. I was serious when I said I wanted a change!'' he said, laughing.

Growing as a Man

Music making and becoming a star cannot be done without the help of others. In this case, Rain was lucky as he had teamed up with one of Korea's best known producers and singers Park Jin-young, or JYP, from the start. When he left JYP and announced that he was starting his own company, some waited patiently, others worried. But in the end, Rain proved that he was serious and brushed off doubts by branching out as a singer, actor, fashion designer and producer.

``When I worked with Park, he was in charge of the music and I was in charge of the stage settings, deciding on scripts for dramas and films and it worked. When I branched out on my own, I had to think about where I was going with `Rain.' As I worked on `Rainism,' I realized that I had talents that I didn't even know I had,'' he recalled.

``Now, I definitely listen to more music and always wonder about myself and prepare for the next step. I think now I finally know what I'm doing.''

But like any other young entertainer who goes through a bit of a slump, Rain also went through a hard time as one of the most popular singers and actors in Asia.

``Living as a celebrity in Korea means you have to hide some parts of your life and must restrain yourself to some extent. At one point, I wanted to give up everything and let go. But now I have learned a lot and I think I'm on my way to becoming a better man,'' he said.

Big Dreams

Rain may have become a household name in Korea and a couple of Asian countries, but he still has a long way to go to be seriously recognized as an actor or singer in the U.S. and European market. Thanks to ``Ninja Assassin,'' he has demonstrated that he has onscreen potential, but what about his music?

``The promotion tour for (the film) made me realize that the world is big and there are so many things to do. I've done interviews and commercials after filming `Ninja Assassin,' and I think it was a great stepping stone in my career,'' said Rain.

The singer apparently had a firm strategy: start out as an actor, be recognized and then release an album.

``Just like with the drama `Full House' in Asia,'' he said.

It seems that Rain may have a head start over his fellow Korean singers, who have strived to tap into the U.S. market for the past few years, but America is a tough sell, and the singer knew that rushing would not be effective.

``You can't just release an album and make a big fuss over it. I would love to start immediately, considering my age, but I must follow the American way,'' he said calmly.

`` There will be failures but there will also be success. I'm dreaming big.''
sunnysnoopy@koreatimes.co.kr

2010-03-31

Sex Noise

Sex Noise

A couple in Zwickau in the German state of Saxony has reportedly been evicted from their apartment for being too loud while having sex, Daily Bild reported Monday.

“The frequency and tremendous volume of their screaming and moaning can be heard in the entire house and it's become a no longer acceptable nuisance,” the landlord explained in the couple’s eviction notice. The 25-year-old man Michael Krug, his similarly aged partner Nicole Kühn and their two small children must now leave the apartment by mid-April, the paper reported. Fortunately, the randy couple has apparently already found a new place to live with much thicker walls than their current flat.

Big Boobs Man

Big Boobs Man

Chinese doctors claim to have discovered the biggest case of man boobs in the world after a 53-year-old dairy farmer turned up at a specialist chest clinic in Beijing, Austrian Times reported.

Doctor Zhang Lilan at the Jinan Chest Hospital said: "The man is in every way male except for his enormous breasts. He is a farmer and says they are extremely uncomfortable as he has to do a lot of manual work and they get in the way of everything.

The man, Guo Feng, said: "About 10 years ago my chest started to get larger but I didn't think much of it as I was putting on weight all over ― but in the last few years it's become unbearable and I have been from one hospital to the other with nobody able to help me.”

Doctor Zhang added: "In 30 years of working as specialist here at the chest clinic I have never seen anything like that."

Proud to Be Gay

Proud to Be Gay

After years of speculation, Puerto Rican pop sensation Ricky Martin has announced that he is gay and he is proud of it, IBN reported.

On his Web site he said he kept quiet for many years because his advisers warned that coming out of the closet could hurt his career.

Martin, who has sold more than 60 million albums in a career spanning three decades, also fathered two children with a surrogate mother two years ago.

Martin said he was blessed to be who he was and was relieved to finally declare his true sexuality.

Ricky Martin Comes Out: The Economic Fallout

Ricky Martin Comes Out: The Economic Fallout


By Christopher John Farley


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Pop star Ricky Martin came out of the closet today on his Web site.
Puerto Rican pop singer Ricky Martin came out of the closet today on his Web site. But the story of real import may be this: What are the economic consequences of a male pop star coming out? (For more on Martin’s announcement, go here.)

On his site, Martin writes that associates warned him about opening up his personal life because of the risk to his career and image. He wrote on his Web site: “Many people told me: ‘Ricky it’s not important’, ‘it’s not worth it’, ‘all the years you’ve worked and everything you’ve built will collapse’, ‘many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your reality, your nature.’”

Speakeasy decided to take a look at a few male pop and rock stars who have announced that they are gay to see how their careers fared before and after their public revelations:

Elton John

Before: A Grammy-winning pop star who sold millions of records world-wide.

After: A Grammy-winning pop star who still sells millions of records world-wide and also writes music for hit musicals like “The Lion King,” “Aida,” and “Billy Elliot,” and the movie version of “The Lion King.” And he’s Sir Elton now.

George Michael

Before: One of the biggest pop stars in the world, first as half of the pop duo Wham!, and then as a solo artist.

After: Post-coming out albums such as “Patience” (2004) haven’t sold as well as the releases of Michael’s heyday, such as “Faith” (1987), but he’s had success in Europe and elsewhere around the world.

Clay Aiken

Before: The vocalist finished second to Ruben Studdard on “American Idol,” but he far outsold the champ and his 2003 debut album “Measure of a Man” started out at number one on the charts, powered in part by legions of female fans who called themselves “Claymates.”

After: Some Claymates went public with their disappointment with the singer coming out. Aiken’s last album “On My Way Here” debuted at number four on the charts and didn’t generate anything approaching the interest of his debut.

Adam Lambert

Before: The theatrical rocker finished second to winner Kris Allen on “American Idol” in 2009 though many critics had predicted he would win.

After: Lambert sparked controversy after simulating oral sex and kissing a male band member during a performance on the American Music Awards. Despite the media furor, his first album debuted at number three on the charts, and his release has outsold Allen’s album by a wide margin. Lambert’s music has been featured in movies such as “2012″ and he’s a staple on the morning, afternoon and late-night talk shows.

Ricky Martin

2010-03-27

Ireland’s Ibrahim Named Mr World 2010

Ireland’s Ibrahim Named Mr World 2010


New Mr World
Ireland's Kamal Ibrahim
By Lee Hyo-won
Staff Reporter

INCHEON ― Ireland's Kamal Ibrahim was named Mr World 2010 at the contest's finale at Sondo ConvensiA, Saturday.

The Czech Republic's Josef Karas was runner-up and Nigeria's Kenneth Okolie was second runner-up.

The competition was designed to find ``the world's most desirable man'' ― someone not only tall and good-looking, but also intelligent and amiable. During the 16-day journey in Korea, the three winners had stood out more than others for their sense of leadership and camaraderie toward fellow contestants.

The grand finale opened with a graceful Korean traditional fan dance and energetic taekwondo performances. The 74 national representations were introduced, and the three presenters of the evening ― actors Lee Da-hae and Julien Kang and British pop star Alesha Dixon ― took the stage.

Dixon hyped up the crowd of some 1,500 singing her smash number ``The Boy Does Nothing,'' and the first part of the event culminated with the announcement of the 15 semifinalists.

The show followed with Girls' Generation. The top K-pop group, dressed in white and orange as cheerful cheerleaders, sang their hit dance songs ``Oh'' and ``Gee'' to a sensational audience, which included many vocal young fans. The numerous VIP guests from near and far, including Angola's charge d'affaires to Korea, Alfredo Dombe, looked on with a smile.

The air in the hall tensioned as the semifinalist group was narrowed down to five. Many in the audience were disappointed with the elimination of Korea's Yoo Ji-kwang, who had won the fast-track to the top 15 by winning the talent show. The contestants of India, Greece, Germany and Guadeloupe, among others, expressed regret when Dixon announced the top five.

The top five included, in addition to the winning representatives of Ireland, Czech Republic and Nigeria, the Netherlands' Honza Jan Filipi and Lebanon's Abdul Rahman El Balaa.

The evening came to a close as Julia Morley, chairperson of the Miss World Organization, co-organizer of the event with The Hankook Ilbo-The Korea Times Media Group, announced the winners starting with third place.

After Nigeria and the Czech Republic were announced as runners-up, Ireland's Ibrahim was seen holding tightly onto his fellow contestants, and then break into a smile to hear ``Ireland.''

``I feel a bit numb right now at the moment, it really hasn't sunk in yet,'' the 24-year-old told the press after receiving his trophy.

``I came hoping to make top 15, that was my goal,'' he continued. ``I think pride is the strongest feeling right now; I keep thinking of my country, my family, my girlfriend.''

Karas congratulated the new Mr World, saying he possess everything required of the title ― physical strength and stamina, intelligence and character.

The winner is also entitled to a cash prize of $50,000 and various engagements with the Miss World Organization.

hyowlee@koreatimes.co.kr

2010-03-25

More Koreans Pin Job Hopes on Plastic Surgery

More Koreans Pin Job Hopes on Plastic Surgery

Increasing numbers of people get plastic surgery to land a job or get promoted. Industry insiders say the proportion of jobseekers who visit cosmetic surgery clinics rises by 20-30 percent every year in September and October, the prime job hunting season.

One clinic specializing in facial surgery conducted a survey of 609 jobseekers in October. Some 270 people or 44 percent replied that they failed in interviews or getting a job, were rejected by the opposite sex, got bullied or were ostracized or insulted due to their appearance. Some 153 or 25 percent said their appearance was directly responsible for missed opportunities to land a job.

In a recent survey of 243 recruiters by a job information provider, 66.7 percent of respondents admitted that applicants' appearance affects their decision.

"Around half of jobseekers seem to be getting plastic surgery to get a job, including non-operational procedures such as Botox or filler injections," claimed Dr. Park Sang-hun of the clinic. "We're living in an age where people get a plastic surgery to become a teachers or bank clerks, not to mention entertainers or TV presenters."

Preferences for a facial contour differs according to the kind of they look for. Aspiring flight attendants or TV presenters prefer a small, oval face, while those applying jobs in banking or teaching want a face that gives a sense of softness and decency.

"As for men, appearance seems to matter more for those seeking a promotion to a place in the top echelon. A lot of middle-aged men get surgery ahead of promotion to executive level," Park said.

Judge: School violated lesbian's rights, but prom cancellation valid

Judge: School violated lesbian's rights, but prom cancellation valid
By the CNN Wire Staff
March 23, 2010 10:24 p.m. EDT
Constance McMillen said she was told not to take her girlfriend to the prom or wear a tuxedo.

STORY HIGHLIGHTS

* ACLU, school board attorney both say they're pleased with the decision
* Judge won't order school district to hold a prom that it had canceled
* Cancellation came after openly lesbian student asked to attend with girlfriend
* School board attorney says parent-sponsored event will take place April 2 in Tupelo

(CNN) -- A Mississippi lesbian Tuesday won a judge's backing for her contention that her First Amendment rights were violated when her high school refused to allow her to attend her prom with her girlfriend.

But U.S. District Judge Glen H. Davidson refused to order the Itawamba County School District in Fulton, Mississippi, to hold the dance it had canceled over the matter.

In his 12-page order, Davidson also ruled that Itawamba Agricultural High School's denial of 18-year-old Constance McMillen's request to wear a tuxedo to her prom was a violation of her rights.

"The record shows Constance has been openly gay since eighth grade and she intended to communicate a message by wearing a tuxedo and to express her identity through attending prom with a same-sex date," Davidson wrote.

"The court finds this expression and communication of her viewpoint is the type of speech that falls squarely within the purview of the First Amendment."

When school officials told McMillen she could neither take her girlfriend to the prom nor wear a tuxedo to the event, the senior went to the American Civil Liberties Union, which demanded the school change its policy. In response, the school district canceled the prom altogether.

Davidson denied a motion for an injunction filed by McMillen against the school district's superintendent, the school's principal and its assistant principal asking the court to order that the April 2 prom be reinstated, saying that parents were planning a private event to be held on that date for all students, including McMillen.

Requiring school officials "to step back into a sponsorship role at this late date would only confuse and confound the community on the issue," he said.

Both sides in the dispute were happy with the outcome.

"It vindicates Constance's rights," said Christine Sun, senior counsel with the ACLU's lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender project.

"It sets a legal precedent for gay and lesbian students all over the country that they have the right to bring a same-sex date to the prom and also to wear gender-nonconforming clothes to the prom. We were looking for a ruling that what the school did was violate her rights," Sun said.

School board attorney Michele Floyd said the school district was also pleased with the decision.

She said the parent-sponsored event, which may be called a ball instead of a prom, is to be held in Tupelo, 19 miles away.

But ACLU's Sun said McMillen had not received an invitation. "We haven't heard anything about this private prom other than what this school district has told us," she said. "It remains to be seen whether she will be able to attend the private prom."

McMillen's case is going forward on a damages claim and the ACLU's request for attorneys' fees, she said. "She got what she wanted, and now it's just a question of what the damages might be in her case."

"I never thought the school would try to cancel the prom and hurt everyone just to keep me and my girlfriend from going together," McMillen said last week in an ACLU news release. "A lot of people have made really generous offers to pay for a prom somewhere else, which I really appreciate. But all I've ever wanted was to be able to just go to my own school's prom with my girlfriend."

At the center of the lawsuit is a February 5 memorandum from the school to students that said prom dates must be of the opposite sex.

Superintendent Teresa McNeece also told McMillen that she and her girlfriend could be ejected from the prom if other students complained about their presence, according to the documents.

Men Turn to Aesthetics, Grooming to Become Metrosexual

Men Turn to Aesthetics, Grooming to Become Metrosexual

By Bae Ji-sook
Staff Reporter

When British columnist Mark Simpson coined the term "metrosexual," he had a clear concept in his head: he is a "a young man with money to spend, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis. Particular professions, such as modeling, waiting tables, media, pop music and, nowadays, sport, seem to attract them but, truth be told, like male vanity products and herpes, they're pretty much everywhere. He is much more interested in being looked at."

His vision became realized by British football powerhouse David Beckham.

Here, in the far eastern country from Britain, men are actively transforming themselves to metrosexuals and have stepped a bit further- they are now called the "grooming tribes" here, who even wear slight make up to their workplaces or social gatherings. Cracking the old idea that fashion and beauty are for gays only, straight men are also gearing up to look nicer and fancier every morning.

One thing to reflect the trend is the increasing consumption of "men cosmetic goods."

Lee Nam-hun, 29 year-old self-employed man, said he wears "color lotion" to work every day. The product is a combination of foundation, lotion and sun screen. "I have used it since I served for the military six years ago. Many of the colleagues were using it, even my superiors," he said.

He said more friends near him are interested in applying lotions or sunscreens for the skin's sake and more people are talking about nice looking shirts or glasses. "Don't you think men aren't interested in grooming themselves," he added.

Indeed, the cosmetic market for males is expanding every year. According to Amore Pacific, the nation's largest perfume maker, the market marked around 580 billion won last year and is expected grow by 3 to 5 percent every year.

The company has recently opened a men's cosmetic shop "MEN STUDIO" in northern Seoul and is enjoying great success.

"We focused on men aged between 26 and 32: who have graduated from college and has a job, which enables them to understand that grooming is a necessity. About 60 percent of the visitors are men and the rest are women trying to buy something for their boyfriends," Lim Jung-shik, the store brand manager, said.

"In the past, most men bought items online, in order to avoid embarrassment of entering 'girly' places. However, they are more straightforward and do not mind talking or enquiring about it," Lim said, explaining his main target.

It's not just the basic items such as aftershave lotions or moisturizer but more sophisticated ones like eye cream or night cream that also are marking high sales rate. Some even turn to BB cream, something that women turn up to make face look as if they have applied nothing. It still covers spots and scars. Amore Pacific as well as several other makers have joined the race to attract men who are willing to look flawless at work.

In the night time, the clubbing and other pop culture have influenced many men to try "smoky eye makeup" and leave strong impression on others.

"I sometimes like this kind of strong make up. Why shouldn't I? I look more attractive under the lighting at parties," 29-year-old Chung Sang-gyo said. He said when wearing makeup, he felt more attention from girls, mostly in a positive way.

Prof. Jung Jin-woong of Hanyang University said, "As the social status of women have increased in the past several decades, men started to realize that they need another asset- appearance- to compete with the women. I think more men will be indulged into grooming."

bjs@koreatimes.co.kr
For Korea Times

2010-03-23

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